September 1st, 2010

What's your body doing?
Let’s start out with this rule of thumb:
When you are thinking of of an upcoming test (or anything else in the future), remember to breathe.
Here’s a very common experience for test-takers: “My test is next Tuesday (or tomorrow). YIKES!” Your heart rate goes up, your blood starts rushing, your stomach wrenches. You know the routine.
I don’t know about you, but often, when I’m thinking about something that I have coming up later today or tomorrow or next week (and it doesn’t have to be as stressful as a test), I find myself getting a little amped up. What do I mean by “amped up”? Read the rest of this entry »
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July 18th, 2010

Anxiety: where are you feeling it?
This week I had an experience I’d like to tell you about.
I have a summer engagement working with professional actors who are recording the voices to a well-known video game.
In the middle of one of the recording sessions I found myself starting to worry about something. What I was worrying about isn’t the point here. The point is I was…
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June 27th, 2010
One of the chief ways we become distracted is by our own thinking. We start thinking about the past or the future or about something else other than what’s going on now, in the present. When we’re distracted we lose focus and then it’s much harder to progress towards our goals. Our stress goes up and our performance is compromised – whether it’s on a test or when we’re facing any challenge in life. We literally fall off the path.
An example of this is when we become distracted by our own old fears. I can’t handle this, I’m not good enough, I can’t keep it together…and other negative thinking. “Negative” here means minus-ing, taking away from. But taking
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June 24th, 2010

Are you tense?
At a recent lecture I gave at the University of California San Francisco medical school, I was teaching the first year students how to use the calming tools: breathing, grounding and sensing.
Breathing is by far the most important of all 9 tools in the performance model. So much has been said and written about breathing, and no wonder! When we don’t breathe regularly it causes all sorts of mental, emotional, physical, and spiritual problems.
After we worked on grounding, one of the students had a brilliant observation. First, to remind you:
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June 20th, 2010

Use a timer: you'll stay focused
Often people ask me “What’s the best way to stay focused?”
Here’s what I recommend: use a timer. Whether it’s on your digital watch, your i-pad, your cell phone, or one that you set up on your computer, I’ve found the timer to be my biggest aide to staying focused.
The procedure goes like this:
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June 16th, 2010

Cheating is not an option
The New York Times ran a story recently titled: Pressed to Show Progress, Educators Tamper with Test Scores. The article is about teachers supplying their students with test questions and in some cases, changing the answer sheets, all to raise their students’ scores.
Why would a teacher, a role model for his or her students, take such a drastic action?
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May 29th, 2010
At a book discussion and signing at Borders in Pleasanton, CA, a seasoned teacher perused the book and said, “This book is the missing link. It’s the Rosetta Stone.” This is a big complement coming from a person with years of experience working with under-served students, helping them to succeed on tests.
The teacher, Steve Shramko, works at the Eastside Adult Education Program in San Jose, and has, over the years, recognized the need for material– “a curriculum” — that addresses the test taker, not just the test content. “This is exactly what we need,” Steve said, referring to the book.
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May 4th, 2010

Stop pulling your hair out!
Here’s a quick and vital tip: when you are feeling stressed pay attention to your body.
Much of what we think of as stress is exactly that, thinking. We start worrying about something that hasn’t yet happened (like an upcoming test) or fretting over something that has already passed (like the answers we put on the test this morning– Did I circle a or b?!). As soon as this kind of thinking kicks in we start amping up. We begin feeling anxious.
So here’s the tip: the feeling is just that, a feeling, something that’s going on in our bodies. Yes, it might be
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April 16th, 2010
“It shouldn’t be so hard!”
How often I hear this from students, teachers and parents. And how often I think this myself!
From students it’s about homework, assignments, tests, keeping up with the schedule, all those after school and extra curricular activities. Pile it on! Parents and teachers have their own litanies.
I get the feeling pretty often that most of us are stressed out most of the time! Or, to be more exact…
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January 31st, 2010
You know that phrase they use at raffles? “You have to be present to win.” The same is true of tests, as in life.
One thing I’ve noticed over and over again with people who have trouble with tests– they are flipping from the past (”Oh no, I didn’t study the right things”) to the future (”If I fail I’m going to lose my scholarship”). Though both statements may be true, going in either direction (past or future) is not helpful when you’re taking a test. At that moment, when you are reading and answering questions, you want and need to be one place and one place only: in the present.
Only by being present can we do the job we need to do, at that moment. Only by being present can we develop the awareness that we’re veering off track, and then get back on track.
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